In the many conversations we’d had regarding whether Mom wanted a DNR, this was her bottom line: “There’s no point to living if you’re not really living.” So, as I made our daily plans, in addition to the items Mom’s care required, I added time to enjoy a “calm and prolonged breakfast,” nature, and companionship.
—excerpt from Living Is for Living: A Caregiver’s Story
Dear Terry, You are still the same sweet, young woman I knew in Middle School. What a beautifully written story you have told about you, your Mom, and your family. My Mom passed away three years ago at 96. She wanted to be at home and she was—until the end. The last few months were difficult, but it was as she wanted it. I miss her everyday. You will never regret the time and love you have given to your Mom. You are one special woman, Terry. I admire you now as I did way back when. Hugs to you, your Mom—and the rest of your dear family.
Thank you for sharing your experience and your reassurance. I’m glad you had that time with your Mom, and I get the missing her everyday part. She sure raised an incredible daughter.
I see a wonderful, inspirational book in the future.
Thank you Darlene, for always cheering me on.
So beautifully written. Enjoy your time with your mom….I wish had had more time with my mom.
I wish you did too Cheri.