Mom had referred to me as her sister and her friend. Then, as Tramadol messed with her mind, she asked me if I’d be her secretary and later, my personal favorite, her “Lady Girl.” I was just glad she still knew I was on her side.
—excerpt from Living Is for Living: A Caregiver’s Story
Your sharing your experiences and feelings helps others in the process. So, share away ?.
Teri – it’s been so long since I’ve seen you but you sound so much the same: warm, caring, practical (about accepting the way things are), loyal, all the things I valued in you way back in college. I also appreciate you sharing this since none of us knows when it will be our journey as well and then we’ll need to be ready. Hearing how you are processing this helps me think about how I will try to (channeling you!) if my time comes. You are very respectful of your mom and she would be so proud of you. Anne
Thanks Darlene!
Thank you for sharing this. I’m glad that writing helps you. Laughter has always been a way for me to cope in difficult times so embrace your “lady girl ” status!
Yes, laughter is such a welcome relief : )
Your words are inspirational & breathtaking at the same time. Thank you for sharing your journey, Terry. Amazing.
So nice to cross paths with you Mollie.
Keep up the great attitude, “Lady Girl”. Always love reading your posts. It connects me not only to your Mom but to a long ago life in the Portland area. I still miss those days.
Let me know when you’ll be back – I’d love to see you!
Lady Girl…write away! Your mom is lucky to have you by her side!
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I loved how you described your Mom because it reminds me of the woman I knew in the C.E.M.S. guidance office so many years ago. I admire you and your family for every step you are taking in the care of your Mom. Thoughts and prayers coming to you, Terry.
Thank you
I can’t even see while I type this through my tear-filled eyes. Sending you love and hugs and strength. You are amazing!
Sending you love and hugs and strength too my friend!
Gosh Perk– you write so well. I can’t even imagine what you go through in even one day. You are so smart and strong. You go, Lady Girl!!
Right back at ya KOH!