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“Excuse Me”- Saving Face and Alzheimer’s disease

December 1, 2018

Helping caregiver Jess shop for her wedding dress

I don’t believe Mom saw Alzheimer’s coming; I do believe, though, that it would have eased her mind to know that she continued to make new friends, bringing joy, humor and grace, and inspiring the rest of us to do the same.

—excerpt from Living Is for Living: A Caregiver’s Story

Accepting help, Letting go, Making peace Alzheimer's Disease, Caregiving, Friendship, Gratitude, Keep it simple, Marriage terry@thejoyofcaring.com 10 Comments

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  1. Julie Tselikis says

    December 2, 2018 at 2:39 pm

    Dear Terry,
    As always, you have expressed your feelings and thoughts with so much love and compassion. Your Mom is so fortunate to have you…and the rest of your family… to care for her as she goes through this transition in life. Bless you.

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    • terry@thejoyofcaring.com says

      July 1, 2021 at 2:05 pm

      Thank you.

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  2. Tracy Lappin says

    December 2, 2018 at 3:06 pm

    Beautiful and as touching as always Terry. What a blessing you are to all! Miss you my friend. Happy Holidays to the Mittman’s.

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    • terry@thejoyofcaring.com says

      July 1, 2021 at 2:05 pm

      Miss you too my friend.

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  3. Kate O says

    December 2, 2018 at 3:08 pm

    Loved this one! Thank you, Terry! And please tell your mom I say hello.

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    • terry@thejoyofcaring.com says

      July 1, 2021 at 2:05 pm

      💕

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  4. Ellen says

    December 2, 2018 at 10:40 pm

    Always uplifting. Keith’s dad has no speech now, just smiles.

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    • terry@thejoyofcaring.com says

      July 1, 2021 at 2:06 pm

      Grateful for smiles – please let Keith know I’m thinking of him.

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  5. Linda says

    December 4, 2018 at 2:25 pm

    You are such a blessing Terry. I think of you guys often ❤️

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    • terry@thejoyofcaring.com says

      June 28, 2021 at 9:13 pm

      Thank you Linda, I’m so grateful for how our paths overlapped – I think of you too, always with a smile and gratitude.

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