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Celebrating Mom – Grateful for Grief, Belief and Relief

May 10, 2020

That first Mother’s Day since Mom died, I looked at our kids with a deep sense of connection, to them and to her, thankful for the understanding that missing Mom wasn’t an “either/or,” it was an “and.”  I felt sad and I felt glad.

—excerpt from Living Is for Living: A Caregiver’s Story

Learning as we go, Letting go, Maintaining balance, Making peace, Practicing faith, Taking care of self Alzheimer's Disease, COVID-19, Grief, Life after death terry@thejoyofcaring.com 6 Comments

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  1. Mary Ann Hill says

    May 11, 2020 at 2:04 pm

    You write so beautifully, Terry. Thank you for sharing your journey. xo

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    • terry@thejoyofcaring.com says

      June 28, 2021 at 12:27 am

      Thank you, Mary Ann.

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  2. Diane Rolfe says

    May 11, 2020 at 7:41 pm

    As I read of your journey,I have a sense of Laures reading right along with me.Oh! How proud she must be!

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    • terry@thejoyofcaring.com says

      June 28, 2021 at 12:25 am

      Diane, one of the things that I love is that, even in her last stretch, Mom made a new friend in you – what a blessing – thank you for all the love and kindness you gave her all the way through.

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  3. Robin says

    May 11, 2020 at 8:05 pm

    You are a gift to me as a friend. Chaplaincy Institute? Are you studying to become a Chaplain? Much love and thank you for connecting all of your words together and taking us into your heart.

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    • terry@thejoyofcaring.com says

      June 28, 2021 at 12:23 am

      Robin, my friend, from long ago : ) yes, an interfaith chaplain

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I am Acadia Manset's granddaughter. Raised in Maine, graduated from Dartmouth College and Harvard Law, I have spent the last 24 years parenting. With our adult kids in the process of leaving the nest, my mom has moved in, leading to precious time and daily opportunities I never anticipated. I hope that this site will inspire insight and growth, humor and fun, questions and answers, for you and for me.

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