The Joy of Caring

Reflections of a Daughter of the Silent Generation and Mother of Generation Y

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“First Things First”

September 14, 2017

Starting to feel breathless with all the What Ifs, I remembered this AA slogan. The nurse drew blood and collected urine in record time and, free to go, I asked Mom what she wanted for lunch. “Something meaty,” she replied: First Things First!

—excerpt from Living Is for Living: A Caregiver’s Story

Gathering Info, Maintaining balance #ENDALZ, Acting as if, Alzheimer's Disease, Caregiving, Diverticulitis, Gratitude, Health first, Infection, One day at a time, Step 9 terry@thejoyofcaring.com 4 Comments

“Beast Mode” Time

August 9, 2017

A gift from my CrossFit trainer Nicole

Hospitalized again, Mom being evaluated for another intestinal ailment, with enough blood loss to warrant a transfusion, it was time to gear up again.

—excerpt from Living Is for Living: A Caregiver’s Story

Helping others #ENDALZ, Acting as if, Alzheimer's Disease, Caregiving, Friendship, Gratitude, Health first, Keep it simple, One day at a time, Parenting terry@thejoyofcaring.com 8 Comments

Vacation Defined (the dictionaries and me)

April 20, 2017

Vacation (noun)(vā-kā′shən, və-) “A period of time devoted to pleasure, rest, or relaxation”(thefreedictionary.com) … the sun on the horizon, the wind in the palms, the waves on the beach, my family in their beds asleep, and Mom at home safe and sound …

“… a period spent away from home or business in travel or recreation …”(merriam-webster.com)… exploring new places, reading a book just for fun, closing my eyes – sun on my hat, sand under my feet, enjoying new foods prepared by another, talking and laughing, together, apart …

“… the time during which a person temporarily ceases regular duties of any kind and performs other activities … typically used for rest, travel, or recreation, but may be used for any purpose …” (webster-dictionary.org)… I step away, I unravel, I rejuvenate, I rediscover, and I look forward to returning home to Mom.

—from Living Is for Living: A Caregiver’s Story

Maintaining balance, Taking care of self Acting as if, Alzheimer's Disease, Caregiving, Dementia, Eldercare, Gratitude, In the Moment, Marriage, One day at a time, Parenting, Pivoting, Step 3, Time terry@thejoyofcaring.com 6 Comments

Letting Go of Anonymity

March 9, 2017

It was time to be brave, to speak up, and to share publicly, trusting it’d be okay. So I launched this blog, practicing my motto when the kids were young: “Keep It Simple, Keep It Positive, Keep It Fun.”

—excerpt from Living Is for Living: A Caregiver’s Story

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I am Acadia Manset's granddaughter. Raised in Maine, graduated from Dartmouth College and Harvard Law, I have spent the last 24 years parenting. With our adult kids in the process of leaving the nest, my mom has moved in, leading to precious time and daily opportunities I never anticipated. I hope that this site will inspire insight and growth, humor and fun, questions and answers, for you and for me.

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Raised in Maine, I had spent the prior 24 years parenting, mostly in Wisconsin. With our adult kids in the process of leaving the nest, my mom moved in, from Maine, leading to precious time and daily opportunities I had never anticipated. I launched this site in 2017 as a way to share that experience, hoping to pass along what I was learning about Alzheimer's disease, to process the challenging parts, and to have some fun too. I never anticipated the way the community of readers would fuel me in staying the course. Today, I am deeply grateful for that, and so much more.

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