The Joy of Caring

Reflections of a Daughter of the Silent Generation and Mother of Generation Y

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Never too old to play basketball

July 7, 2019

It was an honor to be one of 130 Maine athletes to attend the National Senior Games where I played on Team Phoenix. Watching women, ages 50-90, play basketball, not only inspired me, it gave me hope –  I wanted to be kicking ass when I’m in my eighties and beyond too!

—excerpt from Living Is for Living: A Caregiver’s Story

Finding time, Having fun, Learning as we go, Letting go, Maintaining balance, Practicing faith, Taking care of self #ENDALZ, #gotitfrommymama, Alzheimer's Disease, Eldercare, Fun, Gratitude, Health first, Pivoting terry@thejoyofcaring.com 6 Comments

My Sisters (in-law)

June 13, 2017

My sisters (in-law) may not have been part of my start, still, I was grateful they were part of my present.  Although we were from different gardens, I loved our awesome bouquet!

—excerpt from Living Is for Living: A Caregiver’s Story

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“Living is for Living” – Mom’s Three Things

May 30, 2017

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In the many conversations we’d had regarding whether Mom wanted a DNR, this was her bottom line: “There’s no point to living if you’re not really living.” So, as I made our daily plans, in addition to the items Mom’s care required, I added time to enjoy a “calm and prolonged breakfast,” nature, and companionship.

—excerpt from Living Is for Living: A Caregiver’s Story

Gathering Info, Learning as we go, Maintaining balance Alzheimer's Disease, Caregiving, Dementia, Eldercare, Fun, Health first, In the Moment, Reframing terry@thejoyofcaring.com 6 Comments

Bubby Rules

May 22, 2017

(Written to celebrate her storied life, May 2015)

If our dog Bubby Blue made the rules, here’s what she’d say: See a treat?  Go ahead and eat.

Want to swim?  Jump on in.

Hungry?  Help yourself.

See a stranger? Bark.

Don’t hold grudges, it’s a waste of time.

Tired? Take a nap.

Lonely? Get a hug.

Got an itch?  Let someone scratch it.

Need to poop?  Poop.

Just keep wagging your tail, and you’ll be fine.

Never give up… it’s the little things in life that make it worth living.

—from Living Is for Living: A Caregiver’s Story

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I am Acadia Manset's granddaughter. Raised in Maine, graduated from Dartmouth College and Harvard Law, I have spent the last 24 years parenting. With our adult kids in the process of leaving the nest, my mom has moved in, leading to precious time and daily opportunities I never anticipated. I hope that this site will inspire insight and growth, humor and fun, questions and answers, for you and for me.

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Raised in Maine, I had spent the prior 24 years parenting, mostly in Wisconsin. With our adult kids in the process of leaving the nest, my mom moved in, from Maine, leading to precious time and daily opportunities I had never anticipated. I launched this site in 2017 as a way to share that experience, hoping to pass along what I was learning about Alzheimer's disease, to process the challenging parts, and to have some fun too. I never anticipated the way the community of readers would fuel me in staying the course. Today, I am deeply grateful for that, and so much more.

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